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我的同学总是让我帮他很多我该英语作文

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MyClassmateAlwaysAsksMeforHelp

Asastudent,itisnaturalforustohelpeachotheroutwhenneeded.However,whenoneofmyclassmatesconstantlyreliesonmeforhelp,itcanbecomeexhaustingandoverwhelming.ItmakesmequestionwhetherIambeingtakenadvantageoforifIamjustbeingagoodfriend.

Myclassmate,letscallhimTom,isaniceguyandgenerallywell-likedinourclass.However,heseemstoalwaysbeinneedofassistancewithhisschoolwork.Whetheritsaskingfornotes,borrowingabook,oraskingforhelpwithadifficultassignment,Tomisalwayscomingtomeforhelp.

Atfirst,IdidntmindhelpingTomout.Afterall,weareclassmatesanditsimportanttosupporteachotherinouracademicendeavors.Butastimewenton,Istartedtofeeloverwhelmedbytheconstantdemandsforhelp.ItseemedlikeTomwasrelyingonmemoreandmore,tothepointwhereIwasspendingmoretimehelpinghimthanfocusingonmyownstudies.

IbegantofeelresentfultowardsTomandstartedtoquestionhismotives.Washejustlazyandtryingtotakeadvantageofmykindness?Ordidhegenuinelyneedhelpandwastooembarrassedtoaskanyoneelse?Istruggledwiththesethoughtsandfeelings,tornbetweenwantingtobeagoodfriendandwantingtostandupformyselfandsetboundaries.

Irealizedthatcommunicationwaskeyinresolvingthisissue.IsatdownwithTomandhadanhonestconversationwithhimabouthowIwasfeeling.ItoldhimthatwhileIwashappytohelphimwhenIcould,IalsoneededtoprioritizemyownschoolworkandneededtosetlimitsonhowmuchIcouldassisthim.

Tomysurprise,Tomwasunderstandingandapologetic.Heexplainedthathewasstrugglingwiththecourseworkanddidntknowwhereelsetoturnforhelp.Hethankedmeforbeingthereforhimandpromisedtobemoremindfulofmytimeandnottakeadvantageofmykindness.

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