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寂寞也好A man is known by the company he keeps they say. If it is so,then everyone is bound to have their baggage of loneliness with them as companions.loneliness is not something that doesnt exist at all with any human being on earth.Every human being feels lonely in his life at some point or other. Its but natural to have such feeling ,because thats what makes us all human and that is why we are as we are now. 他们说人总是通过他身边的同伴为人所知的。如果是这样的话，每个人都注定与孤独为伴。孤独感是每个人都会有的，都会在某个时候，感到孤独，这是非常自然的。因为孤独感令我们成为人，并令我们成为现在的我们。 If we shed some light on why we feel aloof or lonely at times, we would be very much astonished or even probably surprised by the results. We ourselves are responsible for our selfdefined gloominess. This is because at times we really feel that we are uncared for or feel someone doesnt understand us. 如果我们留心思考为什么我们有的时候会觉得高处不胜寒或孤独时，我们会对分析的结果感到非常吃惊。我们自己应该对我们自己所定义的忧郁负责任。因为有的时候，我们真的觉得我们被忽视或者不被理解。 Sometimes we over analyze real life situations and have this growing sense of self pity inside us. This feeling always gives us thoughts which picturise us always receiving the wrong end of the stick in life.The truth might not always be true if we touch our heart and see. Its just that our expectations in life and from people around us or circumstances that we are facing,have got the better of us. Expectation is the silent killer which murders millions of mushy and time tested relationships. If there would have been no expectations from anyone, the world would have been a much better place to be. If there would have been no expectations,not many people would have had an aching heart and a life long grouse against there would have been better haves.If it wouldnt have been for unreasonable expectations not many couples would have divorced each other. 有的时候我们过度地分析了真实的情况，这令我们自己产生了自己怜悯自己的感觉。这种感觉经常会给我们错觉，如果我们扪心自问，真相并不总是真的，它们只是我们对身边人和环境过高的期待。期待是一个沉默的杀手，谋杀了无数亲密的和经过时间考验的关系。如果每个人都不去期待，这个世界将会变得更好。如果没有期待，就不会有那么多人感到心痛，而对于有些人，一生的埋怨也就不会那么长了。如果没有那些不切实际的期待，也就不会有那么多夫妻离婚了。 How to come out of ex