人生的45堂课摘要.ppt

45 lessons in life 人生教我的45堂课 作者：Regina Brett，90岁 美国俄亥俄州，克里夫兰，Plain Dealer城 Life isnt fair, but its still good. 人生是不公平，但还是好得很 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 怀疑的时候，朝着未来踏出一小步 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 人生太短，短到来不及浪费时间去恨任何人 4. Your job won‘t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.生病的时候，你的工作不会照顾你；你的朋友和父母会。与他们保持联系 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 每个月付清你的信用卡 6. You dont have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 你不需要每一次都吵赢。同意你不同意的 7. Cry with someone. Its more healing than crying alone. 找人一起哭，比独自啜泣更加疗愈 8. Its OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 对上帝生气没有关系，祂受得了 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 退休存款从你的第一张薪水单开始 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 讲到巧克力，抗拒只是徒劳无功 11. Make peace with your past so it won‘t screw up the present.与你的过去和解，别让它搞砸你的当下 12. Its OK to let your children see you cry. 让你的孩子看到你哭没有关系 13. Dont compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.别拿自己的人生与他人比较，你根本不清楚他们的人生是怎么一回事 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn‘t be in it.如果一段亲密关系要偷偷摸摸，你根本不应该涉入 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But dont worry; God never blinks. 一眨眼的功夫什么都会变，但是别担心：上帝从来不眨眼 16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 深吸一口气，它会安定你的大脑 17. Get rid of anything that isnt useful, beautiful or joyful. 丢掉没用的，不美的，或不喜欢的东西 18. Whatever doesnt kill you really does make you stronger. 没让你死的事情，真的会让你更坚强 19. Its never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 重拾快乐童年永不嫌晚，但这第二次只能靠你自己 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don‘t take no for an answer. 当事情关乎你的生命所爱，不要把不当答案 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Dont save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 点蜡烛，用好的床单，穿上炫丽的内衣。不要等特殊场合才用，今天就是特别的一天 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 准备要周全，然后随遇而安 23. Be eccentric now.