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Dr Larry Gee Balancing Work and Life平衡工作与生活 Dr. Larry Gee Married 1989 Father of Three Children U.S. Family Practice Physician Key Questions?? 重点问题 Who Am I? 我是谁？ Why Am I here? 我为什么到这儿来？ Where Am I going? 我要去哪儿？ Can I get there by myself or do I need a guide? 我能自己到哪儿去吗？还是需要一个向导？ 10 KEYS TO SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE成功婚姻的10把钥匙 LARRY GEE, MD LARRY GEE 博士 Beijing United Family Hospital 北京和睦家医院 Never ever ever ever GIVE UP! Winston Churchhill college graduation speach 爱的真谛Agape Love Love is Patient Love is Kind Love always protects Love always trusts Love always hopes Love always perseveres Love never fails Love rejoices with the truth 爱的真谛Agape Love Love does not envy Love does not boast Love is not proud Love is not rude Love is not self seeking Love is not easily angered Love keeps no records of wrongs Love does not delight in evil Triumphant Marriage #1 Dream a Dream有一个梦想 # 2 Get Tough怎样处理 # 3 Maximize the Trust Factor充分信任 #4 Get healthy- A triumphant marriage requires 2 emotionally healthy people有益健康-成功的婚姻要求2个感情健康的人 #5 Work on Chemistry- Maximize Passion and Romance让吸引力起作用-充满激情和浪漫 Triumphant Marriage #6 Learn to Talk- Become Masters of Good Communication学会交谈-成为交际大师 #7 Work It Though- Conflict is inevitable so learn how to handle productively尽管冲突是不可避免的，还是要把问题处理的有结果 #8 Negotiate a Mutually Satisfying Sexual Relationship商议一个相互满意的性关系 #9 Get Connected- Recognize the role of Children and Friends 认清孩子和朋友与婚姻的联系 #10 Pursue Spirituality追求精神生活 Balance 平衡 That point that we pass as we swing from one extreme to another 在我们从一个极端转向另一个极端的过程中我们可以找到一个平衡点 Key Questions 重点问题: Do I have time to read a good book? 我有时间读一本好书吗？ Do I play regularly? 我有定期的娱乐吗？ Do I have time to laugh? 我常常大笑吗？ Do I have enough margin in my life to chat with a friend or even my wife? 我的生活中有足够的空闲与朋友甚至是妻子聊天吗？ Can I say no and not feel guilty? 我能够对别人说不而没有任何负罪感吗？ Our computers, our movies, our sex lives, our prayers– they all run faster now than ever before. And the more we fill our l