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《学来的幸福》Learning to Be Happy智 慧 父 母 ---好爸爸好妈妈训练班--- Parenting Class (I) 宋志颖 博士 心理医生 Parenting ---A New Learning Experiment, Experience, 知己知彼，百战百胜！ Being a child and Growing up ---Learning to Be a Person learn·ing ? ? 1.knowledge acquired by systematic study in any field of scholarly application. 2.the act or process of acquiring knowledge or skill. 3.Psychology. the modification of behavior through practice, training, or experience -It may refer to knowledge obtained by systematic study or by trial and error. learn·ing. –verb (used with object) 1.to acquire knowledge of or skill in by study, instruction, or experience: to learn French; to learn to ski. 2.to become informed of or acquainted with; ascertain: to learn the truth. 3.to memorize: He learned the poem so he could recite it at the dinner. 4.to gain (a habit, mannerism, etc.) by experience, exposure to example, or the like; acquire: She learned patience from her father. 5.(of a device or machine, esp. a computer) to perform an analogue of human learning with artificial intelligence. 6.Nonstandard. to instruct in; teach. –verb (used without object) 7.to acquire knowledge or skill: to learn rapidly. 8.to become informed (usually fol. by of): to learn of an accident. What is the definition of parent/parenting? From physical, emotion, behavior, Purpose: Remember, the goal is not to control the child, but for him or her to learn self-control.管教孩子的目的不是“管”， 而是“教” Basics for a child’s good physical health: Nutritious food 营养 Adequate shelter and sleep 睡眠 Exercise 锻炼 Immunizations 免疫 Healthy living environment 健康的生活环境 Basics for a child’s good mental health: Unconditional love from family-- Children need to know that your love does not depend on their accomplishments. 无条件的爱和关怀 Self-confidence and high self-esteem Praise Them 鼓励表扬他们 Set Realistic Goals 设立事实求是的目标 Be Honest 真实 Avoid Sarcastic Remarks 不要用讽刺挖苦类的言语 Basics for a child’s good mental health (cont.): The opportunity to play with other c