The Language of Confidence.doc

The Language of Confidence 语言的信心 The language we use programs our brains. Mastering our language gives us a great degree of mastery over our lives and our destinies. It is important to use the language in the best way possible in order to dramatically improve our quality of life. 语言的使用开发了我们的智力， 控制我们的语言很大程度的控制了我们的人生和命运。 为了 提高我们的生活质量最好的方法是语言的使用，这非常重要。 Even the smallest of words can have the deepest effect on our subconscious mind, which is like a child, and it doesnt really understand the difference between what really happens and what you imagine. It is eager to please and willing to carry out any commands that you give it -- whether you do this knowingly or not is entirely up to you. 甚至最小的词在我们的潜意识里有着这深远的作用， 就像一个孩子， 不真正明白两者之间发 生了什么不同和你怎么想的， 他渴望令人喜欢， 乐意执行你给的任何命令。 无论你这是故意 与否完全的取决于你。 Try It is a small word yet it has an amazing impact upon us. If someone says, Ill try to do that you know that they are not going to be pulling their whole heart into it, and may not even do it at all. How often do you use the word try when talking about the things that matter to you? Do you say Ill try to be more confident or Ill try to do that or Ill try to call? Think about something that you would like to achieve, and say it to yourself in two different ways. Firstly say, Ill try to? and notice how you feel. Next say, I will do? and see how you feel. The latter makes you feel better than the first one, doesnt it? It gives you a sense of determination, a feeling that it will be done. Listen to the people around you and when they say they will try notice if it gets done or not. Eliminate the word try from your dictionary and see how your life improves. 努力 这是个很小的词却对我们有着令人惊讶的影响力。如果有一个人说， “我会努力这样做”你 知道他们不会去把他们的话完整的记在心里， 甚至可能全部不会去做。 当讨论一些对你很重 要的事情的时候你多久会尝试使用这个词？你会说 “我会设法做的更有信心” 或者 “我会努 力这样做” 或者我会努力的。 想一些想要实现的目标和说出你自己两条不同的想法。 首先说 “我会努力” ，注意你的感受。下一个说， “我将要做”看你什么感受，后者给你的感觉比第 一个要好一点， 不是吗