Men Women.pptVIP

* Men Women Freda Han Ruihua Liu 2012.11.24. Sistine Chapel , Vatican The Fall and Expulsion from Garden of Eden The creation of Eve The creation of Adam Creation of Adam 创造亚当 Sistine Chapel , Vatican Creation of Eve 创造夏娃 Sistine Chapel , Vatican The fall and expulsion from Garden of Eden 原罪与逐出乐园 Sistine Chapel , Vatican Men mistakenly expect women to think, communicate, and react the way men do; Women mistakenly expect men to feel, communicate, and respond the way women do. We have forgotten that men and women are supposed to be different. Since that day men and women have been in conflict...... Life would be perfect if every moment is just like the first glimpse. 人生若只如初见… Clearly recognizing and respecting these differences dramatically will reduce confusion between men and women. A man’s sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results. 男人的自我意识通过他的能力达到 A woman’s sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships. 女人的自我意识通过她的感情和她的关系 Different Values 不同的价值观 To feel better men go to their caves to solve problems alone. To feel better women get together and openly talk about their problems. The differences how they cope with stress 区别在于他们如何应对压力 When Tom comes home, he wants to relax by quietly reading the news. He is stressed by the unsolved problems of his day and finds relief through forgetting them. His wife, Mary, also wants to relax from her stressful day. She, however, wants to find relief by talking about the problems of her day. The tension slowly building between them gradually becomes resentment. Tom thinks Mary talks too much, while Mary feels ignores. Without understanding their differences they will grow further apart. Solving this problem for Tom and Mary depends not on how much they loved each other but on how much they understood the opposite sex. Without knowing that women really do need to talk about problems to feel better, Tom would continue to think Mary talked too much and