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DO YOU KNOW HIM If you want to be a person who can talk with people without any difficult, you must know him. If you want yourself have a happy life, you had better know him . If you want gain fame and fortune, you should know him. Dale Breckenridge Carnegie Dale Breckenridge Carnegie (originally Carnagey until 1922 and possibly somewhat later) (November 24, 1888 – November 1, 1955) was an American writer, lecturer, and the developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills. Born in poverty on a farm in Missouri, he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People (1936), a massive bestseller that remains popular today. He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (1948), Lincoln the Unknown (1932), and several other books. One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other peoples behavior by changing ones reaction to them .戴尔·卡内基（Dale Carnegie，1888年11月24日－1955年11月1日），美国著名的人际关系学大师，西方现代人际关系教育的奠基人。其在1936年出版的著作《人性的弱点》（How to Win Friends and Influence People），70年来始终被西方世界视为社交技巧的圣经之一。他在1912年创立卡内基训练，以教导人们人际沟通及处理压力的技巧。此训练在1987年时由黑幼龙引进台湾。 他出生时的真正姓氏其实是Carnagey，但约在1922年前后，他将其改为读音相近的Carnegie，为取当时的巨富安德鲁·卡内基（Andrew Carnegie）之姓。 His early years Carnegie also found that he has inherent melancholy character. He ever speak to friend : trouble with my life. A person who dont have self-confidence, are almost puzzling with all kinds anxiety winding lad, eventually become a master who can give others self-confident and optimism. It will need to experience many imagine among this master of mental stimulation. 卡内基还发现，他具有与生俱来的忧郁性格。他曾向朋友倾诉：“烦恼伴随着我的一生。”一个如此没有自信，几乎被各种各样莫名其妙的忧虑缠绕的小伙子，最终成为给别人自信、让人们乐观的心理激励大师，这中间需要经历多少磨砺，就可想而知了 农场里干更多的活。每天早晨，他骑马进城上学。放学后便急匆匆地骑马赶回家里，挤牛奶、修剪树木、收拾残汤剩饭喂猪……在学校里，瘦弱、苍白的卡耐基永远穿着一件破旧而不合身的夹克，因而曾被同学取笑。 卡内基在童年时代受到他母亲很大影响。母亲生性乐观，百折不挠。一次大水灾，洪水冲出了河堤，把农场的所有农作物冲得不见踪影。母亲十分镇静，她哼唱着歌，将家园重新收拾好。母亲对卡内基寄予厚望，一直鼓励他好好读书，希望他将来做一名传教士，或做一名教员。 。 When he was16, Carnegie did mo