教育中常见矛盾心理.docVIP

 HYPERLINK / /  HYPERLINK / /  HYPERLINK / /  HYPERLINK / / 教育中常见的矛盾心理 教孩子真的不容易啊,虽然有这么多的书,这么多网络经验可以借鉴,可我们还是非常茫然。家长们既不想成为教条主义者,有没有独特的方法,教育孩子,左右摇摆,不但自己,连孩子也不知所从…… Really not easy to teach children ah, although there are so many books, so many network can draw lessons from experience, but we still very vacant. Parents dont want to be dogmatic, and both have unique methods, education of children, from side to side, not only ourselves, but also my children manual... 1、既想教育孩子谦和礼让,又担心孩子吃亏。 1, both humble comity to education children, and fear that children suffer. 不少家长注意到了要培养孩子谦和礼让的品质,看到孩子吃独食,或者不让小朋友玩他的玩具,就教育孩子要谦和,讲孔融让梨等故事。可是当孩子从幼儿回来高高兴兴地告诉父母,幼儿园发水果,他挑最小的,父母又觉得孩子吃亏了。孩子满心以为能得到父母的赞扬,结果却挨了一顿骂,孩子犹如吃了一闷棍,糊涂了。 Many parents noticed the humble comity to cultivate childrens quality and available to see children, or dont allow children to play with his toys, and education the child want to quietly, stories about jung let pear and so on. But when the child came back from the children happily tell parents, kindergarten fruit, he picked the smallest, parents think child got the short end of the stick. Children were filled with thought can get parents praise, only got a scolding, children like to eat a SAP, confused. 有些家庭则仅仅在理论上要求孩子礼让、尊重他人,而在实践上去是大力培养孩子的自私心理。当孩子想和父母一起分享好吃的食品时,做父母的往往会忘记平时自己对孩子的教育,反而会说,这是妈妈为你买的,久而久之,孩子自然会形成“最大、最好的东西就该归我”的意念。父母说的是这样,做的又是那样,孩子困惑,简直无所适从,不知怎样才能符合父母的要求,很快孩子学会了说一套做一套的坏毛病。 Some families have only requiring children comity, respect for others, in theory and in practice it is vigorously to develop the childs selfishness psychological. When a child wants to share the delicious food with my parents, parents tend to forget oneself to the childs education at ordinary times, it will say, this is my mom bought for you, as time passes, the child will naturally form is the biggest, the best things belong to my idea. Do parents said so, and that, kids confused, just confused about what to do, dont know how to meet the requirements of the parents soon child