幼儿延迟满足技能(国外英文资料).doc

幼儿延迟满足技巧(国外英文资料) Three tips for toddlers deferred gratification When it comes to deferred gratification, its important to mention the psychology classic candy experiment. In the 1960 s, famous psychologist walter michelle at Stanford university made a fudge experimental kindergarten: the experimenters give a candy, a group of 4 years old children, said: you can eat at any time. But if you can wait me come back to eat again, that will get two grain of sugar. Then he went away. Some of the children ate the sugar quickly, and some of them insisted on waiting for the experimenter to come back, and, of course, they got the promised two sugars. , for these children to track, until they graduate from high school, found at the age of four to two pieces of candy for children, with strong competition ability, high efficiency and strong self-confidence. They are able to cope better with frustration and stress, and have a sense of responsibility and confidence that is generally easy to win. And those who didnt resist the temptation of children, poor ability to resist setback, self-control, in the face of pressure, work efficiency is low, the self-confidence and sense of responsibility is not strong. Self-control is weakening In todays society, the pace of life is speeding up and the material is growing rapidly, which gives us instant gratification in all the demands of our daily life. Now kids, can we experience the joy of new toys, new clothes, new learning items as a child? Can we cherish it as a child? Probably not. This is a social progress, but it also reflects the fact that todays young children are far less able to control themselves than the previous generation. Some researchers repeated the self control experiment in the 1940 s, the experimenter let children do in their age are difficult, for example still standing. In an experiment in the 1940s, three year olds couldnt do it, understandably; A five-year-old can stand for a few minutes. And a seven-year-old can do as