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两分钟做个小测试，看看你的英语水平/test/kuaisu.aspx?tid=16-73675-0 10 Relationship Facts Everyone Should Know Before Getting Married 先弄清楚这10件事再考虑结不结婚 1. Sharing the housework = more sex. 1.共同承担家务=更多嘿嘿嘿。 Sharing is caring ― and sharing household chores could make for a really hot sex life.? 一起承担就是关心彼此-而且分担家务可以促进真正热烈的嘿嘿嘿。 A 2015 study from the University of Alberta found that couples who?divvy up?cleaning tasks reported higher relationship?satisfaction and got busy more often than couples who left it to one partner. 一个亚伯达大学2015年的研究发现，在婚姻中夫妻分摊家务的，满意度更高，比那些把家务扔给其中一方的家庭更同心协力。 2. The honeymoon phase may be a myth. 2.蜜月阶段可能是一个神话。 Don’t get too hung up on the hot-and-heavy phase fizzling out: the honeymoon phase may be more of a myth than a reality.? 不要过于沉溺于过去热烈的阶段：蜜月期不是现实，只是个神话。 3. Most couples wait six years before going to marriage counseling ― but you should go sooner. 3.大部分夫妻等了6年才做婚姻咨询-但是应该早点去的。 The average couple who visits a marriage counselor has been struggling for about six years. By that time, some therapists say the damage has already been done.? 大部分夫妻为了见婚姻咨询挣扎了6年。但到那时，很多治疗专家说伤害已经造成了。 4. Eye rolls could cost you. Contempt is one of the top predictors of divorce.? 4.翻白眼是有代价的。轻视是导致离婚的高危因素之一。 Get a handle on those snarky remarks. According to marriage researcher John Gottman, contemptuous behavior like eye-rolling, sarcasm and name-calling is the number one predictor of divorce. 学会处理尖刻的言论。根据婚姻研究专家乔恩郭特曼，轻蔑的表现像转眼睛，挖苦和骂人是婚姻的第一威胁。 5. Cuddling is a game-changer in a long-term relationship. 5.在长期关系中，拥抱是粘合剂。 Big (and little) spoons, rejoice! A 2014 study out of the University of Toronto found that even a small amount of cuddling can produce substantial increases in sexual and relationship?satisfaction, especially among women and parents of young children. 大的（小的）拥抱，庆祝一下！一个2014年多伦多大学的研究发现，即使小小的拥抱也能大大增加性爱和关系满意度，特别是对于夫妻关系和刚为人父母的情况。 6. Arguing over finances early on doesn’t bode well for the marriage. 6.很早就争论财产问题，预示着这段婚姻不好。 It may not be the sexiest premarital convo but talking about money i