如何和不在一起长大的妹妹相处.docVIP

Xiaobian I do have a friend she had a child and she did not grow up together sister, then Xiaobian friends grew up in her grandmothers home, her sister grew up in parents, equivalent to a single child. One child some bad habits and not good temperament, there are my body, my friend came to consult me, how to get along together and was not her way, small today make up these share to everyone. 1 了解。要和妹妹相处好，首先第一点就是了解，从妹妹平常的穿衣风格到各种生活习惯，如果觉得一下太多了，了解不全的话，第一个捷径就是去求助爸爸妈妈，爸爸妈妈会把她的一切生活习惯告诉你。 1 understand the. And sister get along well, first of all is to understand, from the sister ordinary style to a variety of habits and customs, if think about too much, dont know the word, the first is a shortcut to help mom and Dad, mom and dad will put all her life to tell you. 2深入探知。深入探知就要进行她的语言行为分析了，每当她遇到一件事情的反应是什么，为什么这样做，当然，自己妹妹也不需要跟分析对手那样分析，其实就是要了解她的行为处事的态度和风格，然后挖掘出她的好的品质，并且知道她身上的缺陷是哪些，从而可以进行下一个步骤。 2 further ascertain. Further out to her language behavior analysis, when she encountered a thing in response to what, why do so,/post/468.html of course, my sister does not need analysis with rivals analysis, in fact, is to understand her behavior attitude and style, and then picking up her good qualities, and know what is she on the defects, which can proceed to the next step. 3 成为她的同盟。女孩子和女孩子之间最容易有共同话题了，一说起电视剧和shopping便没完没了的，要先打入她的内心世界，就需要投其所好，找到她的兴趣点，让她把你自动的列入同盟里，而不是让她感觉你是来分享爸妈的爱的一个姐姐。 3 become her allies. The most likely to have a common topic between girls and girls, in a TV series and shopping is endless,/catalog.asp?cate=4 to break into her inner world, you need to hit on what one likes, to find her points of interest, let her take you automatically included in the union, and not let her feel you are to share a sister loving parents. 4 给情感和教育上的指导。妹妹总会遇上和爸妈争吵的时候，这时候你就要做情感上的安慰与指引了，她是对的肯定她，她是错的，就做一个大姐姐纠正她。还有就是在学习上迷茫没心情学习的时候，给予指导，或者带出去放松（比如运动、跑步），给一个积极的心态给她，让她乐观的面对一切。 4 to the emotional and educational guidance. When sister always meet and parents quarrel, you must do the comfort and gu