给害羞的你：内向性格面试五条软技巧(双语).pdf

给害羞的你 ：内向性格面试五条软技巧(双语) First impressions are everything, so if youre shy by nature, you need to break out of your shell if youre trying to impress someone. 第一印象非常重要 ，所以假如你天性内向害羞 ，你必须打破 桎梏 ，那样才能给 人留下深刻的印象。 This is extremely crucial during a job intervie and in fact, shy people need to express a high level of self-confidence even more so than extroverts. People, in general, are programmed to get information mostly through the eyes rather than the ears. Therefore, hen your body language isnt in sync ith hat you say, the intervie er ill be influenced more by the body language。在面试中这 尤为重要。事实上 ，内向的人比起外向的人更应该表现出高度的自信。通常而言 ，人们更多地通过 视觉而非听觉来获取信息 ，因此 ，假如你的肢体语言和你所说的话不一致 ，面试官更多地会被你 的肢体语言所影响。 No matter ho uncomfortable it is for you to arm up to people immediately, you need to overcome these feelings in order to give off the right message to your intervie er. Here are some things shy candidates should keep in mind hen intervie ing for a job:不论那对你来说有多困难 ，你 都必须克服害羞的感觉 ，迅速去和人们熟悉起来。那样你才能向面试官传递正确的信息。以下是 为那些害羞的求职者提供的一些建议 ： 1. Check out the place ahead of time1.提前踩点。 Theres an advantage to getting to the reception area early. Youll get a sense of the companys personality. Sit comfortably and un ind there. W ith the extra time, youll also be able to relax and gather your thoughts before you meet the intervie er. 提早到达面试地点将会是很大的优势。你会 对公司的特点有大概的了解。舒适而放松地在那儿坐一会儿吧。在提早的那段时间里 ，你可以放松 一下 ，同时对即将面临的面试做好思想准备。 2. Imagine yourself succeeding2.想象自己成功了。 Walk as if you belong there,. If you look like you belong at the company, it ill make it easier for everyone else to imagine you orking there。随便走走 ，就好像你已经属于那家公司了一样。假如 你看上去就像属于那家公司了一样 ， 人也会更容易想象你已经在那儿工作了的样子。 Picture yourself alking into the intervie ers room standing tall, shoulders back, balanced, striding confidently ith your hands s inging comfortably at your side, and smiling。想象你这样走进 面试官的办公室 ：你身板站直、肩膀舒展、身体平衡、步调自信、双手随意在两侧摆动 ，同时面带 微笑。