成为病人（Be patient）.docVIP

成为病人（Be patient） I already agreed with that patient, and I felt the way I felt when I became the patient,! For example: in a team training, a female crew to speak, I feel my heart was pounding, I said, unable to restrain the emotions she is hostile to man, this hostility makes me feel fear, I will continue the next interactive analysis of her attack on the man, but in fact, I or in her body with a lot of time, later, I also insist on special arrangements for her at a time -- I have a fear of supervision and care for her promiscuous ambivalence. Later, further exploration, finally understand, her conflicting feelings about men hate love mixed mode. However, if we look me in that moment she began to speak the feeling, we will discover that I was the heart felt fear and love, is precisely her inner experience, at that moment, I also share her feelings, I also became her! In fact, at that moment, I as an analyst, has not only made her, she had also become in a manner similar to the projected object, we can not only feel the patients feelings, you can also feel the feelings of the patients father. By becoming her, and becoming the object of the relationship with her, we have become her original relationship, and therefore we understand the truth of the patients inner world. Perhaps, through projective identification, the analyst becomes a patient, and the direct experience of the patients emotions is the intuitive psychodynamic mechanism. Because we become patients, we can intuitively and intuitively feel the patient. It is at this level that we can say that at the moment we become patients, our subjective feelings of ourselves represent and reflect the patients objectivity. Analysts as patient -- after empathy: analysts become patient, in addition to the patients emotions and keenly aware of, to understand the patients heart of the real world, we also enjoy the pain of the patient experience. At the moment, the suffering of the patient becomes our pain, and I also have