处理好人际关系的八大技巧（Eight techniques for dealing with interpersonal relationships）.docVIP

处理好人际关系的八大技巧（Eight techniques for dealing with interpersonal relationships） Eight techniques for dealing with interpersonal relationships 1. first, let people like you The strongest wish of human existence is to be loved by others. President Lincoln sees this weakness and points out, the deepest trait of every human being is the desire to be appreciated.. The desire to feel important is one of the differences between an animal and a human being. According to western leading scientists, one of the most desirable traits of successful people is that they have an incentive to boost others, including a positive, positive attitude towards others. They bring courage, hope, and strength to others. And thats what everyone wants and lacks. Andy Wanner, who worked at the Bank of England, has more than ten members, each of whom is more qualified, educated and older. Andy, who is not proficient in his major, relies on his own talent and interpersonal leadership to make every subordinate feel the most valuable in his work and the most important person in the project. The cashier, who was very uncomfortable with him, finally found out a year later: I like Andy more and more.. How do you make people like you? Generally speaking, the following principles or methods should be mastered: First, focus your attention away from yourself. The first step in building good relationships is to move your attention away from yourself. Dont brag about my self always fond of teaching others. Speaking is always what about me, how brilliant I used to be, in fact, this is very annoying. At the same time, some friends to play the ideas of others for their own work, while the interpersonal relationship wont last too stingy to pull out a hair. Second, genuinely care for others. There is a good saying: people know if you care about them, and then you care about whether you know them or not.. No matter what your skills, expertise, education level of education is high, not sincerely care about others more