从深度心理学的角度看爱情（Love in depth psychology）.docVIP

从深度心理学的角度看爱情（Love in depth psychology） Love comes from psychology: Shi Xiaowei log Depth psychology You grew up in the background, often deeply affect his day was what attracted to people and days after the close relationship between the establishment and maintenance of. No matter how many injuries you have suffered, when love comes, it is the best chance for healing and healing. From a deep psychological point of view, the best healer in the world is your lover. But, because of the trust, undefended, so in love is also hurt plus injury the most dangerous time. When people feel touched when they enter into a non rational subconscious process; love relationship is like the relationship between mother and child, love each other, consist in eye, want to do the best to each other, not together, anxiety, uneasiness, if one day apart, such as every Sanqiu. Love relationship, present and past Only in love, two basic psychological needs of people can be satisfied at the same time: one is unconditional acceptance. Two is the first in the hearts of love, especially the empty heart or the immature people, are more likely to depend on each other to support your fragile sense of self value. Imperceptibly, expect them to unconditionally accept you whenever and wherever possible, whenever and wherever possible put you in the first place; psychological is not a sense of security, to request more days after the partner is double; the past hurt, should now get back double love relationship. For example, if you have been neglected in your home, you will unconsciously ask your partner to pay attention to you. In the past, if you are too busy, you will now ask your partner to trust you and give you space. After making each others life, you will feel: why do I want, but you do not give me? People in love, psychological often degenerate back to baby period - what I need, dont speak, parents should know, and take care of the best way is crying, but in the adult world with crying, punish ea