以德报怨还是以直报怨（Good for bad or complaining）.doc

以德报怨还是以直报怨（Good for bad or complaining） Enter simplified Chinese characters, and the following are the traditional Chinese characters on Wednesday, October 13, 2010 . Good for bad or complaining -- straight -- from the analects of the analects ROM. Le (university of macau) In the analects of Confucius, ren has always been highly regarded. Of Confucius, another important point of view, by contrast, straight had little attention, especially in the west, Lao zi doctrine of good for bad, Confucius is early have direct complaints point of view can make response. Who is better? The question is worth pondering and exploring. This article from the analects of Confucius straight intention, combined with the view to compare to clarify good for bad and direct complaints, hope said to Confuciuss straight have a more profound understanding, and some guidance to many problems of modern life. [key words] the Confucius discourse is straight to the point of complaint In interpersonal communication and development, there are many causes, such as the tendency of people to avoid harm, or the unfair distribution of interests, which produce all kinds of contradictions and conflicts. As one of the emotional emotions, the complaint produces, and with the grievance, hatred a kind of mood companions. To open up a long history of human beings - war, massacre, discrimination, fraud, revenge... The problems between people, groups and groups seem to be endless. In the face of such objective contradictions and subjective dissatisfaction, Confucius (551-479) mentioned in the analects of Confucius was considered to be worthy of propaganda. This paragraph is as follows: Or, good for evil, for what? The master said, why do you want to tell me? [1] (question 14: ) Some people say that kindness is used to repay the enemy, and Confucius thought it should be repaid with kindness and kindness in return. In fact, both viewpoints have their merits, and are accepted by different people respectively, and both