充满魅力的10大说话技巧（Charismatic 10 speaking skills）.doc

充满魅力的10大说话技巧（Charismatic 10 speaking skills） [story] an ancient emperor, night had a dream, dream all my teeth out only one, wake up in the morning is very unhappy, under the decree, find two Warlock to dream. The first warlock toward the emperor, the last nights dream to the warlock narrative again, tell the warlock warlock, said: the emperor, this dream solution is not difficult, the dream mean other people in your family, all the dead end, you will not die. The emperor felt very unlucky, furious, it must be a dream of people have neither learning nor skill, not pulled out of solution, ordered beheaded, to avoid misunderstanding of others dream. Xuan second to second after the warlock warlock, listened to the emperors dream, shouted long live! Hooray！ Ten million years old! Said: congratulations to the emperor, the emperor hershey. The emperor said, where does the joy come from? The warlock said: in the dream of you last night, you will be your royal family, the people of life, you have such a long reign of Ming Jun, not people fortunate? The emperor heard, Longyan, commanded the warlock fifty-two gold reward. The same is the meaning of the length of life, because of the different words, but produced two kinds of departure from the results of miles. First, two basic principles should be kept in the process of speaking 1, the view is right and wrong has been constant We are talking the most common mistake is in their heart to judge each others point of view, in fact, each persons view of things, just a different point of view, it is difficult to make the right judgment, the judgment, because in our own mind, there is a set of things, their self non discrimination is values or methodology, it can not represent the others, it can not represent the truth. If you listen and judge, you will freeze the speaker in your mind, and you will inevitably have emotional and verbal bad expressions in your conversation. As the saying goes, all roads lead to Beijing, only listening