学会与不同性格的人打交道（Learn to deal with people of different personalities）.docVIP

学会与不同性格的人打交道（Learn to deal with people of different personalities） (1) the key to getting along with colleagues of different personalities: A persons life, not to deal with, and how many people in modern society, communication and information communication has increased, peoples social activities are frequent, because of work, learning, living needs, and different occupation people each of us inevitably, different ideas of people in nature, these people have different personalities. So, how do we get along with people of different personalities? We should see that, since people with their different personalities, he in the way of getting along with people, many places are not the same as their nature, when we see others with their differences, dont think this is not pleasing to the eye, it is not, not to hate and despise others. We have to recognize the difference, when we recognize this point, see the different personality of people, will not force others everywhere, like yourself, may tolerate differences between each others character. 1, learn to seek common ground while putting aside differences. People with different personalities have different ways of dealing with problems, and we should learn to find the same in different ways. For example, if you are a person with a flat personality, you may ask Xiao Li for advice, which may be less intense and more tactful. If you have a strong character and stubborn colleague, he gave Mike advice may come straight to the point, sharp language, even to criticize you, say you give advice is full of twists and turns, blunt knife flesh. At this time, if you only see the colleague frank criticism of the attitude and the way is not the same with you, think he is too reckless, too hard, you might feel as if you dont get along, he misfits, in addition to see you two comments do not like the way outside, also saw him like you that is well intentioned, sincerely help colleagues, so you may not think he is rude and ruthless, and fel