直面内心的恐惧(完整版)（Face the fear of the heart (full version)）.doc

直面内心的恐惧(完整版)（Face the fear of the heart (full version)） [books] recommended to face the fear 2009-07-04 11:38:43 (): Autumn Face the fear Analysis of division, depression, compulsion, hysteria and big four personality Fear intimacy: split personality characteristics Gentle persecution: aggressive personality depression The eternal desire and sense of security: the logic of life force of personality A kind of hysterical personality: the feelings of the world Sometimes why are we afraid of? In the crowd will feel unsafe, the easiest thing to do, and worry about the opposite sex, but love to hurt? It is a thick cocoon fear in our hearts. It comes from everyones childhood, and control of us now. The children make to friends in the kindergarten or primary school, like an outsider or maverick; adolescent children and teenagers not keen to associate with the opposite sex, buries himself in his books; youth outlook on life an obscure, pondering the meaning of life alone: These are the formation of split personality warning. Children experiencing the first love or to be loved or not, love depends on the mother to see his eyes, how to contact, how to get along with him, even the most subtle things, children also to his sensitive to capture the impression. Between the mother and the pleasant experience is a wealth of value cannot be estimated. But the mother is easy to cause the children to form a melancholy personality. With the force character of people trying to affect palm, so that it is able to control their own situation. They feel no reliable, too subjective, wavering, and easy to fade. Passion is more credible, changeable and irrational, love a person is exposed his weakness. So they are emotionally very stingy, not easily reveal feelings, it is not willing to forgive a partner. They are in a relationship show unusually calm and sober. Hysterical people, both men and women have increased self-esteem and ways of manipulation as partners, not forced forced hysteria perso