安慰别人和自己的30个小技巧（30 tips to comfort others and yourself）.docVIP

安慰别人和自己的30个小技巧（30 tips to comfort others and yourself） 30 tips to comfort others and yourself In the mood, occasionally complain vent, but also adjust the mood of the method, but endless complaints will only add trouble, but how to make yourself happy? Here are 30 more soothing techniques to learn, and you will be happier...... First comfort: everyone has their own way of life Their grief, their own clear, their grief, I understand, their own happiness, their feelings. Perhaps the hell in ones eyes, but in the eyes of others in the hall; perhaps the eyes of their own paradise, but it is in the eyes of others hell. Life is funny like this. Do not always suspect that spring in others, the key lies in the adjustment of their own mentality. The most important thing is to live your life well. The second comfort: do not be slaves of desire People always sigh moths, people always ridiculed the fish hook, people always joke in the mire. But if we think about it carefully, is there any less tragedy of this desire around our lives?. He who indulges in his soul will lose his true freedom at last. He must always be on guard against bad desires. Good go bad desire, cannot indulge oneself. The third comfort: to live light and happy Not with others blindly, you will be carefree and content; not the life goal is set too high, they will abide in joy; not deliberate pursuit of perfection, you will be free from suffering; not always demanding their own, they will live in comfortable; not often carp, you will easily. Too tired to live will be painful, contentment. The fourth comfort: like yourself, will embrace life Blind arrogance, self-esteem, pride, ignorance of life, and abandon themselves to despair, is a negative pessimistic life. It is more difficult to understand oneself than to know others, and to love oneself is more difficult than to love others. Have healthy, proper self-esteem, and be strong when faced with setbacks. Dont lose yourself for the temptation of the outside wor