观察孩子五种过分依赖的表现（Observe the childs five excessive dependence on the performance）.doc

观察孩子五种过分依赖的表现（Observe the childs five excessive dependence on the performance） We all like lively and cheerful children, but some children are shy, pestering, not gregarious, and rely too much on adults. In fact, too dependent on children, it is easy to see in his usual performance, but we are lack of observation. Next, lets look at the five behaviors that children rely on too much. Act 1 and be shy Some children are shy, shy people, so the home of a stranger, the child is always puzzled look; a small child with age disproportionate quiet not active, each time to a friends home, she will be clamoring for the way not to go, even to the same is. Not into peoples homes. Child psychoanalysis: Character is determined by the natural disposition of a child. Quiet love, shy, poor adaptability introverted child, for their new things or strangers, often refused to take the way, met the wrong thing, its reaction could soon be seen. Secondly, there are also problems with parenting styles. Some impatient, impatient parents demand too much, too much discipline, too much criticism, too much restraint, etc.. Some grandparents with children, they always accompany children to play, but the old man always careful easy if its not safe outside, let the children lost contact, the chance to communicate with others, thus become shy, strong dependence on filial piety bile. Some parents often use punishment, corporal punishment, intimidation and other methods of educating the children, for some sensitive and emotionally unstable children, can make childrens nerves in excessive tension, long-term in the course of time, children will become common filial piety and. Children usually tend to reflect his character, quality and other aspects of the problem, it is necessary to parents usually behavior in children were observed, to understand their temperament, and guide the child rearing methods use right, so cultivating a lively and generous, cheerful and optimistic, good personality of the child