警惕你身边的隐形攻击---解答为什么孩子做事慢吞吞等（Be alert to invisible attacks around you - explain why children do things slowly and so forth）.doc

警惕你身边的隐形攻击---解答为什么孩子做事慢吞吞等（Be alert to invisible attacks around you - explain why children do things slowly and so forth） Be alert to invisible attacks around you - explain why children do things slowly and so forth Many relationships are unbalanced, one side is obviously strong, and the other is obviously disadvantaged. Moreover, the strong side is aggressive, and at the same time does not allow the vulnerable to express his feelings. However, anyone who is attacked will be angry and want to fight back. No matter how unbalanced the relationship is, this is no exception. But in a seriously unbalanced relationship, the weaker party does not dare to express anger or dare to fight back, and their consciousness and subconscious will even become seriously divided and are not aware of their anger. But once anger arises, it must seek out outlet. The weaker party simply cant express anger directly, and then they will develop a unique riposte. From the perspective of consciousness, they are absolutely not contrary to the strong side of the absolute requirements, dare to challenge the strong side of the will, yes they are powerful attack under the strong side, well behaved, not. However, they may have some strange circumstances. The simple thing is that they messed up; promises that are easy to carry out, but they dont keep their word...... In short, they often make some rather baffling mistakes, so that a strong Party stamp with rage. When a strong Party stamp with rage, it is severely invaded. This is also the return of the weak side, but also the desire of the weak side of the subconscious mind. They have expressed strong anger, even did not show a little angry, but they make some mistakes by the way to reach rather baffling effect, but directly with anger against a strong side and no what two. This psychological mechanism, called passive attack, is often compared to an invisible attack. The home of the invisible attack is the family. Because of the relationship between pa