孩子不听话,因为你不会批评（Children dont listen because you cant criticize them）.doc

孩子不听话,因为你不会批评（Children dont listen because you cant criticize them） Why isnt the child obedient? Because you wont criticize! This is an article in a friends space. After seeing it yesterday, I immediately transferred to my space! This is a good article worth reading, especially for teachers and parents...... Why criticism doesnt work? When a child makes a mistake, God forgives him. The reason why parents never forgive their children is probably because they are too far from god! Everyone makes mistakes, but in reality, only children who make mistakes can be more vulnerable to criticism. Why? Because children often make mistakes Incorrect！ Because the child is small, do not understand things, easy to make mistakes? Incorrect！ Because our parents always follow the childrens eyes. Yes! All childrens manners are basically out of the reach of their parents. As soon as she fell on the floor carelessly, the mother would say, how can you be so careless?! If the exam results are not satisfactory, there will be a voice sounded: you see how the exam so bad.. If accidentally lost something, there will be a voice said: how do you always absent-minded. Just hit the child, has not come out from the sad, painful grievances, even humiliating emotions, often with a storm of criticism, the heart I feel unhappy, but not what way! But can only silently silently, bold may top words, but it will provoke scolding, really wronged you may cry. Oh This can be even worse, parents will shout cry what cry.! Theres nothing to cry about! And have you ever thought about it? Why do you always criticize from morning till night? Why do you often criticize the same question? Is it because the child is disobedient? Not sensible? Theres too much trouble Have you ever wondered why your criticism didnt work? Some people sigh that life is difficult! Its harder to be a woman! I think you must say now that its harder to be a mother than to be a mother! Every day I get to the front to subscribe to magazines an