英语美文——享受一个人的独处时光.docVIP

享受一个人的独处时光 Do not rely completely on any other human being, however dear. We meet all life’s greatest tests alone. -Agnes Macphail 不要完全依赖另一个人，无论他/她有多么珍贵。生活中最大的考验，我们只能独自经历。——加拿大首位女性议员艾格尼丝·麦克菲尔 I have found that the more time I spend alone, the more comfortable I become in my own skin because I can truly get to know myself. This provides me with more patience to accept myself as I am, wherever I am in my journey, on a daily basis. 我发现独处的时间越长，我越觉得舒服、放松和自信，因为这样我可以认识真正的自己。这让我每天都有更多的耐心来接受自己，接受自己在生活旅途中的位置。 This lesson was something I learned after spending a summer alone in Italy with a family friend. 这堂人生课是我独自一人在意大利学到的，当时我在一位世交朋友家里度过了一个夏天。 I embarked on the journey, turning off my phone for the first time, well, probably ever. I would be jetting all over America then landing in a country with a family basically unknown to me. 我踏上旅途，第一次关上了手机，嗯，这么多年来第一次。我在美国上方飞来飞去，然后降落在一个国家，和一家基本上不认识的人生活在一起。 It wasn’t until two years after I returned that I wished I had spent more time living in the moment while experiencing the greatest adventure of my life. I was not comfortable enough in my own skin to truly be present in the magical moments presenting themselves in a foreign country. 直到我回来两年后，我才希望当时要是我能有更多的时间活在当下，经历人生中最大的冒险就好了。当时我不够放松、自信，无法在一个陌生的国家，在那样神奇的时刻，把它们展现出来。 My mind stayed distracted as I wondered what people were thinking of me, and what I would post online to my friends back home. 当我在想我在人们心中是什么样子，当我在想回家后我会在网上发布什么内容时我就会分神。 At 19 years old, it seemed much more important to capture photos to upload to social media. The Internet was a crutch for me to not feel so alone in an unknown territory. As brave as I was to be completely alone in my adventure, I had a thousand people to connect with on my lonely nights! 19岁时对我来说，拍摄照片并把它们传到社交媒体上要更为重要。互联网对我来说是个拐杖，能让我在未知的领域中不会感觉到那么孤独。和我独自一人冒险时一样勇敢，在孤独的夜晚，我有一千人可以去“交流”。 Two years later I realized that I could have filled my days with activities for growth. 两年后，我意识到，我可以用有助于自己成长的活动来填满日子。 I now wish I had traveled to nearby cities, spent my days re