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How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent? 1. 目前不少父母为孩子包办一切 2. 为了让孩子独立，父母应该…… 14分 These days many parents tend to make all decisions for their children for fear that they might do something wrong. The parents’ purpose is quite clear: to protect their kids from possible failures. But this practice turns out to make their children increasingly dependent on them. For their children’s future development, parents should help them to be independent. The earlier they take measures to do so, the more benefit their children will get. Parents should first teach their children how to make plan, an indispensable skill for their future survival. Parents should also give their children more freedom, a must to children’s independence. If the children only follow rules set by their parents, they will never gain the sense of independence. Most importantly, parents should be open to different ideas from their children. If children feel that their ideas are well listened to and respected, they will become more confident. To sum up, parents should provide their children with plan-making skill, freedom and respect. In this way, children will grow more independent. 11 分 Nowadays, many parents do everything for their children. They cook meals and wash clothes for their children. And they even make all the choices for their children. Everything has done by the parents and the children will do nothing but following the parents’ decisions. In order to help children to be independent, parents should follow the suggestions given below. First, let children do some housework , such as washing dishes and cleaning rooms. These works will not take too much time, but they are suitable for children to learn to live independently. Second, give the chance to manage the family to children. As a family member, child should know how to manage the family. And the parents should teach them this kind of skills. In this way, children can learn the necessary abilities to live on their ow