珍惜现在_着眼未来.ppt

Cherish now, look forward to the future Often were told that we have to suffer now - give up what we want - in order to succeed later, that in order to save we must sacrifice. Give up instant gratification（满意，喜悦） to get delayed gratification. But you can do both. For years, I was confused about this, as I read books and websites that sent me two different messages: The first message was that in order to be successful, in order to build wealth, you have to delay gratification. You cant have instant gratification and be successful. The second message was usually from other sources on Happiness, but sometimes from the same source: enjoy life now, while you can, because its short and you never know when your last day will come. Live every day like its your last. Trouble is, I agree with both messages. And if you read this site often, youll see that I send both messages: Live frugally and simply! But also enjoy life! Thats because Ive reconciled the two philosophies into one: Live life now and enjoy it to the fullest — without destroying your future. The key to doing that? Find ways to enjoy life completely, utterly, maximally … that dont cost your future very much. Live in the moment. Learn to think not so much about the past or future, but about what you are going through right now. Be present. It may seem trite, but its the key to enjoying life to the fullest — without having to spend money. Think about it — you can spend money on eating out, but if you are not really thinking about what youre eating, you may not enjoy it much at all. But if you cook a simple but delicious meal, and really taste every bite, it can be tremendously enjoyable without costing a lot. Read more . Slow down. In the same way, you cant really enjoy life to the fullest if its rushing past you like its on fast forward. Ever think about how quickly a week, a month, or a year goes by? Perhaps youre in the fast lane too much. Try slowing down, and things will be less stressful and more en