职场人际关系好意1-4.ppt

心理防御的案例 一只又饿又渴的狐狸，走到一个长满硕果的葡萄架下，见到架上枝满果肥，禁不住想要吃到它。于是它使了全身的力气去够葡萄，但是无论它怎样地跳跃就是抓不到架上的果实，疲惫的狐狸不得不放弃了努力。望着又圆又大的葡萄，它只好摇摇头说：“这葡萄一定是酸的”。 self-diagnostic 1 When I get sexually aroused,I start thinking about something else. 2 Whenever I experience anger,I keep it inside,choosing not to express it. 3 I can offer explanations very easily and often for why I commit act I recognize deep down as being wrong. 4 I put things off,reasoning that I can strat tomorrow or make up then what I should have done today. 5 I misread people by attributing to them thoughts,feelings and intentions that are not t