一般人际目标量表_中文版GeneralInterpersonalGoalsScale.DOCVIP

一般人际目标量表_中文版 General Interpersonal Goals Scale _Chinese Version 一般情况下，在您与他人交往时，您曾经试图或有多想要这样做： In general, in your relationship with others, how much did you want or try to: 从不 如此 偶尔 如此 有时 如此 经常 如此 总是 如此 避免让人觉得自己无知、不胜任或不聪明 avoid appearing ignorant, incompetent, or intelligent 1 2 3 4 5 提出对别人有建设性的意见 be constructive in your comments to others 1 2 3 4 5 使他人注意到你的积极品质 get others to notice your positive qualities 1 2 3 4 5 避免做出会对别人有伤害的事 avoid doing anything that would be harmful to others 1 2 3 4 5 向别人显露自己最擅长的方面 give the appearance of being on top of things 1 2 3 4 5 表现的很乐于助人 appear helpful 1 2 3 4 5 避免被别人批评或指责 avoid being criticized or blamed by others 1 2 3 4 5 避免自私或以自我为中心 avoid being selfish or self-centered 1 2 3 4 5 包容他人的错误或缺点 have compassion for others’ mistakes and weaknesses 1 2 3 4 5 避免表现出对他人的不喜欢 avoid appearing unlikable 1 2 3 4 5 明白自己的行为对别人造成的影响 understand how your actions affect others 1 2 3 4 5 避免只关注自己的需求而不顾他人的需求 avoid focusing on your own needs to the exclusion of others’ needs 1 2 3 4 5 使他人了解或认可你的才智 get others to recognize or acknowledge your intelligence 1 2 3 4 5 支持和鼓励他人 be supportive of others 1 2 3 4 5 避免做一些无益于自己或他人的事 avoid doing things that aren’t helpful to you or others 1 2 3 4 5 使他人相信你是对的 convince others that you are right 1 2 3 4 5 对他人的生活产生积极的影响 make a positive difference in someone else’s life 1 2 3 4 5 避免冒险或犯错误 avoid taking risks or making mistakes 1 2 3 4 5 做一些对自己或他人都有帮助的事 do things that are helpful for both you and others 1 2 3 4 5 避免出现错误 avoid being wrong 1 2 3 4 5 做那些你认为会成功的事 do things you knew you could succeed at 1 2 3 4 5 避免忽视与他人的人际关系 avoid neglecting your relationship with others 1 2 3 4 5 避免暴露自己的弱点 avoid showing your weaknesses 1 2 3 4 5 避免在情感与别人疏远和隔离 avoid shutting people off emotionally 1 2 3 4 5 Original Scoring: Compassionate goals(关爱他人目标): 2、4、8、9、11、12、14、15、17、19、22、24； Self-image goals(自我形象目标): 1、3、5、6、7、10、13、1