东西方邀请语文化差异.pptVIP

The differences between Western invitation and Eastern invitation; 中国人邀请客人会准备一大桌子的菜,并在就餐过程中使劲劝说客人多吃点,吃完之后, 还有剩菜,就表明主人的盛情款待. China invited guests will prepare a table of food and dining and hard to persuade the guests to eat more, and after eating, there are leftovers, it means that the owners hospitality ; 西方人一不劝吃,二就餐完毕后,盘子最好是空的 Westerners one is not advised to eat two meals after the dish is best to empty. ; 在中国,为了表示热情好客,人们往往会请人在自己家里吃饭,要是在外就餐时, 主人也会抢着为客人买单 In China, in order to express the warm and hospitable people often will ask the guests to eat in your own home, I eat out, the owner will be rushing to pay for the guests ; 在美国,为了表示平等与独立,就餐时,人们一般都实行AA制,各付各的帐 In the United States, in order to express the equality and independence, dining, people are generally the implementation of AA system, the payment of their account ; 中国人经常会对别人说：“哪天我请你吃饭啊。”这话听起来虽然很热情，但双方都知道，这样的邀请可能只是客套而已 Chinese people often will people say: The day that I ask you to eat ah. That sound is very warm, but both know, such an invitation may be just being polite.; 西方人的邀请则一般比较慎重，他们一般不会随便邀请别人到家里做客，也不会轻易许诺邀请。 The invitation of the Westerners tend to be more careful, they generally will not just invite someone to a guest house, it will not easily promise to invite. ;Invitation in American Culture;真的赴约时，客人应该准时到达，或在约定时间后的5分钟至10分钟内赶到。如果提前赶到的话，客人最好别马上进屋，而可以在外面附近地方溜溜看看，直到时间到了再按门铃进屋。之所以这样做，是因为美国人对时间的准时性特别讲究，他们的活动安排常严格地按照定下的时间表运转。当美国人邀请他人来吃饭作客时，男罚人或女主人大多自己下厨掌勺。为了准备好可口的菜肴，他（她）一般要忙到入席之前。客人来得过早，主人陪客做饭两头不着落，给双方带来不便，且主人还有害怕怠慢客人之嫌。如果客人因某种原因迟到15分钟以上的话，美国人通常期待客人打电话通知他们，不然，他们会因客人迟迟不来而徒增忧虑。用餐完毕，客人一般不匆匆离去，而是稍坐片刻，闲聊一番。约摸半小时左右，客人起身告辞，并在离开前再次感谢男女主人的盛情款待。;;一、邀请与你牵手 西方人的邀请一般比较慎重，他们一般不随便邀请别人到家里做客，也不轻易许诺邀请，一旦他们提出比较郑重的邀请，被邀请者则必须作出明确的答复。 [邀请的艺术] 表示邀请的常用句式有： 1. Would you like to...？你愿意……吗？ Would you like to go to the zoo with me? 你愿意和我一起去动物园吗？ 2. I hope you can...我希望你能……。如： I hope you can go to the cinema with us. 我希望你能和我们一起去看电影。 ;3. Id / Wed like to invite....我/我们想邀请……。如：