英文版中西父母与子女的关系.docVIP

Difference on parent-child relationship 英语本科 舒成元 There are many differences on parent-child relationship between China and America .And the biggest difference is that Chinese filial piety plays the decisive role in parent-child relationship while in America it is fraternity that matters most. In China, culture of filial piety has a lot of meaning .Firstly we should respect our ancestor, do as they asked and gain some achievements to bring honor to our family name. Besides we should regard our parents as our only gods. We must obey their words without conditions, do what they expect, be what they want. They are always the seasoned ones and we are always treated as little children who should know nothing. Most importantly, we should take good care of our parents when they get old. In order to make them satisfied, we must pretend to be their most obedient children. At home we are obedient sons and daughters of course, and outside we are polite and well-bred children in the eyes of everybody who have met us. All in all, filial piety is the foundation of the parent-child relationship. While in America love and friendship tie the family. Parents and children are equal. Parents respect their children’s freedom and independence. Children are allowed to develop themselves by their own willingness. Parents are their friends rather than their gods. They call each other’s name directly, which is unacceptable in the view of Chinese parents. Parents do whatever they can to guide their children in a most polite and civilized way. They don’t offer their help if their children don’t ask for. They say that they respect their children’s self-esteem. Both of the parents and the children have their own circle of activity. No one will disturb another. They respect each other’s privacy. They feel good and are satisfied with their fraternity. In my opinion, three reasons below can account for the difference. Firstly, China is based on family so individuals should serve the family at any ex