怎样能兼顾工作和家庭.docVIP

怎样能兼顾工作和家庭 The question I am one of three directors at a s ___ll consultancy. I work long hours and travel extensively. I love my job - it is interesting and well paid - but miss spending time with my two young sons. I have decided to take six weeks non-paid leave in the summer but dont know how to convin ___ my fellow directors that my enthusia ___ and determination have not diminished. Both of them are very career-minded and are focused on being millionaires as soon as possible. 问题我是一家小型 ___公司的三个董事之一。我要工作很长时间、到处出差。我喜欢我的工作（既有趣、挣的又多），但是不能花时间跟两个年幼的 ___在一起。我已经决定给自己放一个为期六周的无薪暑假，却不知道该如何让另外两位董事相信我的热情和决心没有丝毫衰减。他们两位都是非常顾工作的人，一心只想尽快成为富豪。 LUCYS ANSWER Theres no point in trying to convin ___ them your dedication has not changed. It has changed: you are no longer dedicated enough to work during summer as youd rather see your children. 不要试图让他们相信你的奉献精神没有改变，这没有什么意义。它已经改变了：在夏天，你不再会向工作投入足够的精力，因为你更想看着自己的孩子。 It sounds as if youre guilty of the worst sort of parental thinking - the sort that supposes you can both have a workaholic job and be an involved father, and that your work ___tes should somehow be supportive of whatever you decide to do. To you, your sons are precious. To your directors, they are a nuisan ___. 听起来，你似乎有那种为人父母者最糟糕的想法--自以为既能拥有一份废寝忘食的工作，又能当一个称职的父亲，而且你的工作伙伴还应该在一定程度上支持你的任何决定。对你来说，你的 ___非常宝贵；对你的董事们来说，他们就是一个麻烦。 I suggest that you present it to them in a different, truer light. Tell them that your job still ___tters to you very much although there are other things that ___tter to you as well. Maybe you should suggest that, when the time es to sell the business and bee millionaires, you take a slightly s ___ller share - pro rata with the redu ___d effort that youve put in. 我建议你用另外一种更真实的方式向他们陈述这件事。告诉他们，你的工作对你来说仍然意义重大，但是还有一些对你来说也同样重要的事。 The real test will not be how the first discussion goes but how the six weeks works in practi ___. I have my doubts on this. First, unless yours is a pany that goes all sluggish in the summer, you will mi