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HowtoHandlePreschoolBullies
Protectyourchildfrombullyingatdaycareorpreschool
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Yourfirstcluethatsomethingisupmightbewhenyourpreschoolersays,Kidsaremeantome.OrIhateso-and-so,andIdontwanttoplaywithhimanymore.Inmycase,theeye-openerwaswhenmyson,Kevin,broughthomehispreschoolclasspicture.Ashepointedfromonesmilingchildtothenext,hetoldme,ThatsThomas,thatsRiley,thatsJenny,thats...(ominousdrumroll,please)mybully,thats...
Whoathere,littlefella,backup.Backwayup.Abully?Inapreschoolclassof3-and4-year-olds?Dontbullieshavetobeolder--oratleastcapableofopeningtheirownmilkatsnacktime?Iscrutinizedtheimageofthebrown-haired,blue-eyedboystandinginthebackrowinthephotograph.Hewasntscowling,andhedidnthaveBluto-likemusclesbulgingunderneathhisordinarylittleT-shirt.Thebullydidntlooklikeabullyatall;helookedlikealittlekid.
Still,themamabearinmewantedtomarchrightovertotheschool,grabthatpupbythescruffofhisneck,andtellhimthatifhekeptharassingmykid,hewouldntlivetoseehisfifthbirthday.Restassured,Ididnosuchthing.ButmyprotectiveimpulsewasfueledbyKevinsstoriesofbeingbanned from the playground pirate fort and pinched during circle time. Maybe notlife-threateningthings,butdefinitelynotniceeither.Andasitturnsout,mysonisnotalone.
Nottooyoungtobeabully
Withschoolbullyingconsistentlyinthemediaspotlight,mostparentsareawarethatitsaseriousproblem.Thatsencouraging--butwereforgettingaboutouryoungestandmostvulnerableagegroup,thetoddlerandpreschoolcrowd.
Weoncethoughtthesekidsweretooyoungforthekindoftormentingweassociatewithbullying.Butsadly,thatsjustnottrue--andbecauselittle-kidbullyingissosurprisingtomanyparents,itsnotnoticedasreadilyasinolderkids,saysHenryD.Schlinger,Ph.D.,directo
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