初中英语教学：Arealfriendoratoxicfriend.docx

Arealfriendoratoxicfriend?

语篇导读:??我们每个人都有自己的朋友圈，朋友圈里总会有“真正的朋友”和“有毒的朋友”，那么我们该如何去辨别他们呢？

Wealwayshavealonglistofnamesinmindwhenwehearsomeonesay“friends”.Infact,notallthefriendsonthelistareourrealfriends.Somearenotandtheymayevenhurtordoharmtousinsomeway.Peoplesometimescallthosefriends“toxicfriends”.Buthowcanwereallytellthedifferencebetweenarealfriendandatoxicfriend?AwebsitenamedLifeHackhassomethingtosayaboutitanditmighthelpyoufindtheanswer.

Thewebsiteuseseightcomparisonstoshowushowtodoit.

◆Realfriends

??They’reempathetic(体恤别人感受的).

??Theyrespect(尊重)youandthemselves.

??Theyenjoydiscussions.

??Theycallyousimplybecausetheymissyou.

??Theyacceptthewayyouare.

??Theyknowtheimportanceofalonetime.

??Theyeagerlysuggesthowtocelebrateyoursuccess.

??Theyknoweveryonehasdifferenttypesoffriendsandwon’t?judge(评判).

◆Toxicfriends

??Theyarehurtful.

??Theylosetheirtemper(发脾气)easily.

??Theyalwaystrytowinover.

??Theyonlycallyouwhentheyneedyourhelp.

??Theytrytocontrolyouandchangeyou.

??Theytrytotakeupalotofyourtime.

??Theyget?jealous(妒忌的)ofyourachievement.

??Theydon’tlikeyourotherfriends.

ManypeopleagreewiththesepointsfromLifeHack.Realfriendsarealwaystherewhenyouneedthem.Theyhelpyouandencourageyou.Whiletoxicfriendsuseyouwhentheyneedyouandareneveravailablewhenyouneedthem.However,somepeopledisagreewithsomeofthepointsbecausetheythinktheyaretoostrict.

Anyway,Ihopeyoucanfindoutwhatarealfriendisanddevelopgoodandhealthyrelationships!

【编后小语】

健康和谐的友谊才能帮助我们成长。愿我们能理智选择朋友并用心呵护我们的友谊，愿我们的友谊之花永远绽放