大学生恋爱观现状和对策.pdf

摘要 对大学生开展恋爱心理健康教育的主要目标是： 1、增强大学生心理健康的综合水平。 2、提高大学生恋爱中的耐挫折能力。 3、加深大学生对自身和他人的认识程度。 4、促使大学生形成正确的恋爱观。 5、减少恋爱问题对成才的影响。 高校在对大学生进行恋爱观教育中，要坚持系统性、整体性、客观性等 原则，通过为大学生营造健康的心理成长环境，使大学生加强沟通‘j交 往，通过开展专题心理辅导活动，来促进大学生形成lF确的恋爱脱。 综上所述，本文阐述了高校对大学生恋爱观教育的重要性、迫切 性、长期性，对大学生恋爱观现状进行了凋查，系统论述了高校列人学 生开展恋爱观教育的目标、原则、途径及方法。 关键词：大学生恋爱观 现状 对策心理健康教育 II 英文摘要 SUMMARY In one’s life，everyone will undergo several conveys．Love，marriage are the necessary way,the key round．．They will effect all the life． Collegers are in their puberty，with the rippening of physiology mid the developing of psychology’they have come to the age of Jove．The),have beautiful disire and intense pursuit for love，and yearn for to associate with opposite sex One’s attitute，concept to love and marriage and the capacity associating with opposite sex are formed and developed in the college．Love also produce when one in college，many psychological problems arise in love often disturb the collegea affect their study and life．Some becom lonel) because without Mends of opposite sex，some compare with others blindly, some get into one-sided love because wishful thinking，some indecisive because face to several pursuers，some fall out of love because unsuitable，sonic think oneself to be loved because mismlderstand，even SOllle special want to die because love lomess，neglet one’s study and even psychosis，commit Intlrder, the phenomenon that live—together is also a scence what make the college educator awkward．All the problems can influnce the perfection of personality and growth healthy,and if the influnce arose，its degree is very strong．and it can’t diminish for a long time．The problems that the colleger be in love impele the tapping of potential and the final form of good personalitiy and direct influnce the constitute of positive sociaty surroundings in the lhture Therefore， the education for the colleger about the concept of love is not only the requirment of the colleger’s sound in body and mind，the calling of quality education，but also the con