Differences_between_Chinese_and_English_compliments_and_compliments_responses课程.pptVIP

Cultures comparison:Differences between Chinese and English compliments and compliments responses 何江明 罗添洪 梁国武 黄友华 小组成员 The arrangement of our organization 5 Chinese compliments 1 4 Chinese compliments responses 2 3 English compliments English compliments responses Cultures comparison Chinese compliments China is an old country with five thousand years culture and civilization and known for its etiquette. Influenced by the idea of Confucius, people extremely value the politeness and regard modest as a virtue in the communication. when they communicate with others, with a polite and modest pattern, they are often considerate and unwilling to annoy others and to make others feel embarrassed. 恭维计 　 和珅攻于心计，头脑机敏，善于捕捉乾隆的心理，总是选取恰当的方式，博取乾隆的欢心。所以其总是可以摆拍百中。 Go to die! Come on English compliments 西方人有一种习惯，见面除谈天气以外，喜欢向对方说一些恭维话（compliment）, 表示赞美、敬意，或只是表示问候，或没话找话的搭讪。恭维话的范围很广，从人的相貌、服装、首饰，到发型、健康状况，甚至会恭维你佩戴的一只手表、一只钢笔。有人主张，听到恭维话后，只需简单地回答“Thank you.”这固然不错，然而在实际生活中，恭维话往往有许多不同情况，因此，回应也不应千篇一律。顺便说一下，恭维话必须恰到好处，不能过分，否则就变成挖苦了。 Compliment 　　Larry! Come here! said his furious mother, putting the telephone down, I’ve just had a call 　from Mrs. Harrison about your behavior to her Doris at the school dance last night. You wretched, rude boy! 　　I was nice to her, Mum, really I was! protested the youth. 　　I even paid her a compliment when we had a dance. 　　Did you, indeed? said his mother grimly, And what exactly did you say? 　　I said, Gosh, Doris, you sweat less than any fat girl I’ve ever danced with! Some typical compliments 1　you‘re　looking　sharp!（你看上去真精神/真棒/真漂亮。）【与众不同表扬！】 2　you　always　know　the　right　thing　to　say.　　?? = you’re　very　eloquent.（你总是说话得体。）【高层次的表扬！】　?? 3.　what　an　adorable　baby!（多么可爱的孩子。） 4.　I　admire　your　work.　　?? 　=I　respect　your　work.（我对你的工作表示敬意。）【世界通用！】 6.　youve　got　a　great　personality.（你的个性很好。）【一个非常安全的表扬！】　?? 　?? 7.　you　two　make　a　lovely　couple.（你们真是天生的一对！）　?? 　?? 8.　you　look　nice　in　that　color.（你穿那种颜色很好看。）　?? 　?? 9.　you　look　like　a　million　dollars.　=　yo