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保持充沛的体力 Having a rest does not mean wasting time,because rest can give your engery to fulfill more tasks more efficiently. Having a rest regularly.Having a rest before you feel tired.If you do so,you will have one more efficient hour in your daily life. 用这多清醒的一个小时来更好地展现你的能力和有魅力的人格吧。 热情工作的人充满吸引力 If you can not find happiness in your work,then you can not find any happiness in anywhere.Because you have spend a lot of time on your work. If you try your best to creat the interest in your work,you can reduce the chances to feel tired,then you can enjoy your leisure time more happily. 在减少了疲劳和忧虑之后，你就会发现，你已经打造出了很具有魅力的人格了。 四、 如何具有打动人心的说服力 How to be a persuasive person? 以称赞和欣赏来开始你的批评 It is always easier to listen to unpleasant things after we have heard some praise of our good points. Remember what Emerson said :Every man I meet is my superior in some way.In that,I learn of him. 用称赞和真诚的欣赏作为开始。 间接委婉地指出他人的错误才不使人怨恨 Many people begin their criticism with sincere praise followed by the word butand ending with a critical statement.For example,in trying to change a childs careless attitude toward studies,we might say,Were really proud of you ，Johnnie，for raising your grades this term.But if you had worked harder on your algebra，the results would have been better, Calling attention to ones mistakes indirectly works wonders with sensitive people who may resent bitterly any direct criticism. 间接地指出他人的错误。 责人先责己 It isnt nearly so difficult to listen to a recital of your faults if the person criticizing begins by humbly admitting that he ,too,is far from impeccable. 在指责别人之前，不妨先谈谈你自己的错误。 没有人喜欢被命令 A technique like that makes it easy for a person to correct errors.A technique like that saves a persons pride and gives him or her a feeling of importance.It encourages cooperation instead of rebellion. Resentment caused by a brash order may last a long time-even if the order was given to cor