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为何尊重每一个人，甚至是对手 4 Reasons I Respect Everyone, Even My Enemies 为何要尊重每一个人，甚至是对手 I have been a woman of principle for many years. On the one hand I found it a very good quality that helped me keep my dignity; on the other hand, it was difficult to deal with people, because I couldn’t respect those whom I disliked, especially my enemies. That trait of character made me burn already existent bridges and lose opportunities to make new acquaintances. I didn’t know what to do that’s why I tried to talk to a wise man about my problem. I visited my grandpa and asked him for a valuable advice on how to tame my temper and start treating this world with respect. He told me that the problem was inside me. It was impossible and pointless to run away from myself. 多年来，我一直是一名有原则的女性。一方面，我发现这种非常优秀的品质可以帮我维护尊严；另一方面，与人相交非常困难，因为我难以尊重自己不喜欢的人，尤其是我的对手。这种性格导致我焚毁了原本已经存在的人际关系桥梁，也失去了结交新人的机会。我不知该怎么办，因此向一位智者讲述了我的问题。我探访了我的祖父，请他提出宝贵的建议，如何驯服我的脾气，以尊重的态度对待这个世界。他告诉我，问题在于我的内心。自我逃避是不可能的，也是毫无意义的。 After a considerable reflection on my life, I decided to advance my mindset, and made respect my new priority. It was difficult to change myself at first, but I did it, because I knew that work at self-improvement was not an easy thing. It cost me a great deal of effort and time. Since I’ve prioritized respect, I noticed many positive changes in my life. 对生活进行认真反思后，我决定改变心态，把尊重作为最重要的事。最初要改变自己非常困难，但是我做到了，因为我知道，自我提高并非易事。这耗费了我大量的时间和努力精力。自从把尊重放在首位之后，我发现我的生活发生了许多积极的改变。 I think that respect is a powerful tool to deal with my enemies. Moreover, tensed relationships with enemies help me grow and develop that makes me more mature and knowledgeable. My respect is both my weapon and defense. It doesn’t give my enemies a chance to hurt my feelings, because they lack reasons to do it. 我认为，尊重是应对对手非常有力的工具。而且，与对手之间的紧密关系帮助我成长和发展，让我更加成熟，更加博学。我的尊重既是武器，又是防御。尊重并未给对手伤害我感情的机会，因为他们没有理由这样做。 Nowadays many people cannot realize this little, but significant truth. They waste nerves and time, feeling hatred and harboring a grudge against others.