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 PAGE \* MERGEFORMAT 6 How to resolve the communication of the two major killer Any person, whether at work or in life, every day will be to communicate with people, some very good interpersonal communication, work and live very happy, and some interpersonal communication is poor, others have their own pain. The reason there are different endings, is that you can solve their own two big nemesis, accusations and emotional. The first major nemesis: blame: Xiao Li is a small company’s human resources assistant, very much like his work well, would also like to perfect, when she found around the various departments do not do a good job, whether in front of other people, or people, the people always love to accuse others of how to How bad was also his first quarrel about it, can not long afterwards she discovered that no matter how he blamed others, they are no longer grounds her, and she knew that he is not liked, she was very painful. She did not understand the accused can only damage the relationship, she did not know the needs of human nature, anyone want to attain the other people’s recognition, after being sure that certain people will accept from a psychological nature, will make communication simple and happy. Once the first accused, people would immediately form a natural psychological firewall, then opposing, causing the two sides can not communicate down. Any communication should start from the positive, which is management’s sandwiches token, when any one person effort thing, they always have some good creative, even if completely wrong and dedication of the should also receive due recognition. However, there are certainly drawbacks it is difficult to perfect. You have the correct approach should be to identify certain merits and quick to let others to open their hearts and narrow the distance with others, and then pointed out that we should strive for perfection, and give its advice and its communication. Not just accusations, but did not help, in a