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/16/03/Helping-Children-Too-Much-Is-Hurting-Them.html 过分保护对孩子无利 * Helping Children Too Much Is Hurting Them From?VOA?Learning English, this is the Health Lifestyle report. Helicopter parenting describes a style of raising children where parents are over-protective and do too much. The term was used for the first time in the late (nineteen) sixties. It describes parents who?hover?over their kids at home and at the playground like a helicopter. Today, modern technology allows these helicopter parents to hover from even far away. They can give their children directions at any moment from anywhere. Author Julie Lythcott-Haims wrote a book titled?How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kids for Success. In her book, she gives readers a closer look at this parenting style. She also explains why parents should stop it. Julie Lythcott-Haims says she experienced the effects of helicopter parenting?firsthand when she worked as dean of first year students at Stanford University. The incoming students, or freshmen, she says, were very smart and accomplished on paper. But many were unable to take care of themselves. They were turning to parents constantly for guidance, for problem solving, to have them make the choice about something. Oftentimes, Lythcott-Haims had to remind those parents that their kids were old enough to take care of themselves. However, one evening she discovered that she too might be a helicopter mom. I came home one day - my own kids were 8 and 10 at the time - and I leaned over at dinner and began cutting my 10-year-old sons meat. And I realized, Oh my goodness, Im over-helping my 10-year-old. He should be able to cut his own meat! Its my job to teach him. I havent done that. Im on track to being one of those parents.’ I thats when I began to develop real?empathy?for parents and realized were over helping with the best of?intentions. Over-parenting, she says, comes in three types: 1. The over-protective parent. Over-