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剩女也要有骨气：十种奇葩男约会不得 Hes cute, fun, smart and you cant stop thinking about him. Not so fast. While many men may seem ideal after just a few weeks of dating, upon closer?inspection, there can be warning signs that you should avoid a relationship with this person. It is important to recognize these warning signs before its too late. 他长得帅，又很有趣，而且聪明，你都没法停下来不去想他。别太快陷进去。有些男人在约会几周后看上去似乎就是理想的另一半，但再仔细观察一下，有些警示信息就会出现了，告诉你这样的男人要不得。尽快发现这些警示很重要，以免后悔莫及。 1. The set-in-his-ways guy. 只按自己方式做事的男人 These men will only become more?rigid?over time. Dating someone who refuses to do anything new makes for a long-term relationship that is both boring and one-sided. Assuming that he will eventually change and open up to your hobbies is misguided. This will likely never happen. 随着年龄的增长，这样的男人只会越来越固执。如果你的约会对象不愿意做些新的事情来维持你们的关系，不让你们的关系变得单调又一边倒的话，假设这样的男人会改变，并且会迎合你的兴趣，那你就太天真了。这种事是绝对不会发生的。 2. The pick-up-after-me guy. 需要你来料理生活的男人 You are his partner, not his maid. Men who expect you to clean up their dishes, pick up their clothes and take care of them as if they are little children on a consistent basis need a really check, and will likely treat you as if you are their mother for the rest of their lives. 你是他的另一半，而不是他的女佣。这种男人会指着你来刷盘子、洗衣服、照顾他的饮食起居，把自己当成是需要人经常照顾的小孩，而把你当成是他的老妈子。 3. The I-dont-know-what-Im-looking-for guy. “我不知道我要什么”的男人 One day, he wants a relationship. The next day, he wants kids. Two months later, hes not sure about either. Often times when this line is pulled, its code for Im looking for a marriage and kids, just not with you. Steer clear. 今天他想要谈恋爱，明天他想要有孩子，两个月后，他又什么都不确定了。经常出现从这种男人嘴里说出的台词是“我想要结婚，也想要有孩子，不过不是和你。”想想清楚吧，妹子们。 4. The I-need-to-watch-sports-all-the-time guy. “我只想一直看比赛”的男人 Theres nothing wrong with sitting on the couch and watching sports. Many guys do. But this should never?trump?the responsibilities of a relationship or take?precedence?over family?obligations. There is a difference between loving sports and having a childishobsession?with them. Choose a man who knows the diffe