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朋友中扮演一个重要的角色在我们的生活中,我们虽然把友谊视作当然的事实,但我们常常并不明了自己是如何结交朋友的。While we get on well with a number of people, we are usually friends with only a very few --for example; the average among students is about 6 per person.当我们相处,很多人,但称得上朋友的却为数很少——例如,平均学生之间是如何结交朋友的。 Moreover, a great many relationships come under the general term friendship. In all cases, two people like one another and enjoy being together, but beyond that, the degree of closeness between them and the reasons for their interest in each other vary greatly.此外,许多关系受到一般术语“友谊”。在所有的情况下,两个人志同道合,愉快相处,但除此之外,他们之间的亲密程度的,其原因他们的兴趣在彼此相差甚远。 At the beginning, much depends on how people meet, and on good first impressions.刚开始时,在很大程度上取决于人们如何相遇,良好的第一印象。As we get to know people, we consider things like age, race, looks, economic and social status, and intelligence.当我们结识他人时,我们认为这样一些因素:年龄、种族、外观、经济和社会地位和智慧。Although these factors are not of the greatest importance, it is more difficult to have a good relationship with people when there is a big difference in age and background.虽然这些因素不是最重要的,更困难的人建立一个良好的关系有一个大的年龄和背景的差异。 We pay attention to actual behavior, facial expression, and the way a person speaks.我们讲究实际的行为、面部表情,而一个人的说话。Friends will stand closer together and will spend more time looking at each other than ordinary acquaintances.朋友要站更紧密地联系在一起,还要花更多的时间看着对方比一般熟人。Smiles and soft voices also express friendliness, and it is because they may give the wrong signals that shy people often have difficulty in making friends.微??和柔软的声音看起来更友善,并且也表达这是因为他们可能会给错误的信号,害羞的人经常有困难交到朋友。A friendly look with the wrong facial expression can turn into an unfriendly stare, and nervousness may be wrongly understood as unfriendliness.一个友善的眼神配上一副错误的面目表情可以转化为凝视,而“紧张则有可能被错误地理解为不友善。People who do not look one in the eye are not trusted when, in fact, they simply do not have confidence.那些不二人相见的眼睛不被信任的,实际上,那时,他们只是没有信心。 Some relationships are a result of argument and discussion, but it is usual for close friends to have the same ideas and beliefs, the same opinions and in