人际来往技能1(国外英文资料).docVIP

人际交往技巧1 Interpersonal skills 1---- conversation skills 2009-09-19 23:31 in interpersonal communication, when you talk to others, must always be aware of the dual role of both sides of both speaker and hearer, realize two-way communication. In other words, to be aware of their responsibilities is not only his own thoughts clearly, also should consider how to make each other on interest, easy to understand, and to adjust their speech content and methods according to the feedback information to each other. To this end, we should pay attention to the following four aspects of the problem: 1. choose topics. Talking with an acquaintance can naturally lead to a variety of topics, but when you first meet or participate in a social event, you should seriously consider how to choose the topic. Its hard to make a self introduction when you meet for the first time. In a sense, self introduction is a key to social interaction. If you use the key well, it will make you happy in social activities; on the contrary, it may bring you various difficulties. Well, how can you introduce yourself to achieve success in communication? Generally speaking, you should pay attention to self introduction. Some people like to make a self deprecating introduction to show modesty and respect, but this is not necessary. In general, the other person may feel you are insincere; perhaps a commonplace talk of an old scholar, really think you are not a talk, it is self defeating. Of course, but also to avoid the beginning to show off their hard-edged seems daunting, be a brilliant man of wide learning, make people feel you; or a flashy without substance. Only by seeking truth from facts and introducing yourself appropriately can you give people the impression of being honest and frank. After introducing yourself, you have to choose the topic. In order to make the topic of conversation, a preliminary basis for further details of the media and to talk about the topic of beginning, should be the standard i