living a full life(充实人生).ppt

In 1933 ,Zhongshu Qian(钱钟书) and Jiang Yang（杨绛） got engaged. In 1935, they got married and went to studied in the University of Oxford. In 1937,Yuan Qian（钱瑗） was born in the University of Oxford In the summer of 1994,Zhongshu Qian (钱钟书) was in hospital. In the winter of 1995,Yuan Qian (钱瑗) was in hospital,too. One of the hospital is in the west of Beijing, another in the east. At that time, Jiang Yang(杨绛) was already more than 80 years old , she was busy running between home and the two hospitals. This situation was last several years. shortly before her death, Yuanyuan was worried about her mothers three meals. She especially wrote to teach her mother how to do simple meals. However, she already could not eat. 圆圆去世前不久，不放心妈妈的一日三餐，特写信教妈妈，如何做简易饭食。 然而，她自己已经不能进食了。 Yuan Qian (钱瑗) was gone in 1997, without a daughter or a son all her life. 1997年3月4日，钱瑗因患脊椎癌去世,终身未育。 Zhongshu Qian (钱钟书) was gone in 1998. 1998年12月19日上午7时38分，钱钟书先生因病在北京逝世，享年88岁。 In 2003,the book we three(我们仨) was published. In this book, she recalled the happy time with her husband and her daughter. She wrote: 我们这个家，很朴素；我们三个人，很单纯。我们与世无求，与人无争，只求相聚在一起，相守在一起，各自做力所能及的事。碰到困难，钟书总和我一同承当，困难就不复困难；还有阿瑗相伴相助，不论什么苦涩艰辛的事，都能变得甜润。我们稍有一点快乐，也会变得非常快乐。所以我们仨是不寻常的遇合。 现在我们三个失散了。往者不可留，逝者不可追；剩下的这个我，再也找不到他们了。我只能把我们一同生活的岁月，重温一遍，和他们再聚聚。 Let’s return to the question. If you own everything in the world, money, power or something else, you don’t have a family, you can’t live a full life. Family is the dearest persons in the world. Don’t forget your family, no matter how busy you are. What is the most important element for living a full life? Group members: A good appearance ? A happy mindset ? Perfect health ? A good job ? What is the most important element for living a full life? A happy family ? Close friends ? A good neighborhood ? An absorbing hobby ? Lottery winnings ? Ignore the question . Let’s read a story. The story is about Jiang Yang（杨绛）, her husband Zhongshu Qian(钱钟书) and their daughter Yuan Qian(钱瑗） Jiang