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培养自己的说话（Cultivate ones own speech） Guide language: talk is an art, so that their own language is full of charm to people memories or inspiration, rather than leaving the broken heart, is the real purpose of language expression, how to achieve this goal? 1, in the process of speaking, we must maintain two basic principles (1) opinions are right and wrong without judgment We are talking the most common mistake is in their heart to judge each others point of view, in fact, each persons view of things, just a different point of view, it is difficult to make the right judgment, the judgment, because in our own mind, there is a set of things, their self non discrimination is values or methodology, it can not represent the others, it can not represent the truth. If you listen and judge, you will freeze the speaker in your mind, and you will inevitably have emotional and verbal bad expressions in your conversation. As the saying goes, all roads lead to Rome, only listening carefully after its expression, will know things and ideas, make the correct analysis and judgment, maybe someone can bring you a new concept or idea. Listening to the state of mind that will discover the new world, he or she will be in high spirits. (2) full respect Kong Shengren said, three men must be my teacher.. Just as there are no two identical leaves in the world, the way people view things is different, and it takes a learning attitude to communicate with people, which is the basis of respect. Respect can keep you in a good position in communication; respect can make you feel sincere and honorable; respect can show you the deepest part of your heart. Let others respect themselves, first of all to respect others. 2, try not to use negative words Psychologists have found that the use of negative words in communication is better than using negative words. Because the use of negative words can lead to a sense of command or criticism, although it is a clear indication of your point of view, but it is