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In life, we encounter a whole range of stale ideas about what’s supposedly right, and what’s wrong. We hear some things so often that automatically start accepting them as truth. Since many of these things are negative, when we latch on to them, they can weigh us down for years on end.在生活中，我们听到过各种各样的关于所谓的对与错的陈词滥调。有些事情听得太多了，我们就开始不知不觉地信以为真。由于这些中有许多观点都很消极，那么我们若是对它们揪住不放，它们就会令我们一年又一年得萎靡不振。Here’s another great article from professional ’life hacker’ Mark Chernoff, in which he helps us to confront a number of potentially damaging lies head on.这里有一篇职业“生活大师”马克切尔诺弗的文章，他帮助我们应对一些具有潜在摧毁性的谎言。Lie number 1: Alone means lonely谎言一：独身一人就意味着孤独‘Alone’ doesn’t always mean lonely, and ‘relationship’ doesn’t always mean happy. Being alone will never cause as much loneliness as the wrong relationship. If things don’t feel right, take a break，and spend some time with number one — you. Find yourself first. Appreciate your own worth. And next time you’re in a relationship that’s sinking, you’ll be prepared to swim to safety.“独身一人”并不总是意味着孤独，而且“谈恋爱”也不总意味着幸福。独身一人永远不会比一场错误的恋爱带来更大的孤独。如果感觉不对，那就休息一下，花点时间和你自己独处一下。首先要先找到自己。欣赏你自己的价值。下一次，当你身陷于一段日渐沉沦的恋爱当中时，你就会做好走出困境的准备。Lie number 2: Happiness comes when you have everything you want谎言二：想要什么就有什么时，幸福也就会随之而来To be happy doesn’t mean you don’t desire more, it means you’re thankful for what you have and patient for what’s yet to come.拥有幸福并不是说要你满足现状，不再拥有更多的追求，而是要你对于你所拥有的心怀感激，并且耐心静候那些尚未来临的。Sometimes we get so caught up in trying to accomplish something big, that we fail to notice the little things that give life its magic. So appreciate today for all it’s worth. These are the good old days you’re going to miss in the years ahead.有时候我们过于看重成就什么大事，而忽略了那些为生活增添了神奇色彩的小细节。那就感恩今天的一切美好。这些都将成为你在几年之后想念的美好的往日时光。Lie number 3: Pain is something you can see谎言三：痛苦是可以看见的Never underestimate the pain of a person, because in all honesty, everyone is struggling. Some people are just better at hiding it than others. You don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. Passing judgement is