孤独型人格（Solitary personality）.docVIP

孤独型人格（Solitary personality） Children: fear of rejection; another mother is a constant emotional indifference mother. She probably did not want to have children, and the arrival of the child filled her with regret and disappointment. She saw the child as the root of her unhappiness, or the result of a wrong act. Perhaps she had a natural aversion to children, just as her mother had been disgusted with her. This mother is emotionally cruel to her children, and she is rarely willing to hold a baby, beating and scolding her children. Some mothers remain apathetic about their children because of their chronic emotional depression. The mother of the child called lonely children, they are often afraid of close contact, despite the fact that they also like other children need a mothers love, but every time the desire and requirement of mother attachment will lead to psychological distress, so baby naturally made a painful choice: avoidance all the intimate contact, and lead to a conclusion: there is no need for me. They do not often cry, it seems very easy to satisfy, give him what to eat, do not ask for more, do not care about whether others care about themselves, there seems to be no need. He constructed an unreal self who seemed independent, but in fact denied the need for self, and fear was in touch with others, only to avoid the pain that might have caused it. Such children are often considered to be a good boy, good boy, the independence of the mother for the child early show and proud, later in life, the children of this so-called independence may be subject to social approval, even he would be for his independent pride, but unhappy marriages are waiting for him. Adult personality: lonely lonely children if the growth environment remains unchanged, he in the psychological characteristics of childhood with his growth and become the basic characteristics of his personality, become a kind of in a relationship, especially in intimate relationships with avoidant personali