越控制越失序（The more you control, the more you lose order）.doc

越控制越失序（The more you control, the more you lose order） The more you control, the more you lose order As small as a person, as big as the world, and at any moment, it seems that something is happening out of order. Then control the desire to give birth. The individual controls himself to suppress experiences that he can not endure for the time being. For example, the loss of loved ones, the pain is too great, our previous psychological structure will be completely broken, this is a great disorder, we fear, and therefore to control themselves. Strong men control society, sometimes to protect their vested interests, but many times they really want to save groups, societies, and even the world. For example, the Nanjing University and the Zhejiang University freshman banned computer, because now the students entered the university campus, is in a state of disorder, this state is very bad, and so the university administration responsibility is heavy to control the disorder state. However, the more control, the more disorder. The great pain of losing loved ones, no matter how you control it, how to suppress it, how to deny it, it will not disappear. Instead, it sinks into the depths of the unconscious, into the darkness that our consciousness cannot touch; this black is split with our consciousness and often leads to something terrible and completely out of control. As far as the individual is concerned, there are too many things we cant control - and probably we cant control anything. A girl blushed, she felt very bad, so she wanted to control her face. But the result of this effort was that her face became more and more heavy and her desire to control became more and more serious, and eventually became what she called blushing phobia.. A military pilot during World War II, Research Institute of sedimentary geology Shanzhan, he also shot down numerous enemy planes, like a steel generally do not know the pain do not know fear man. After World War II, he traveled to Italy an