黄国胜老师如何克服心理咨询中的虚谈（Teacher Huang Guosheng how to overcome the empty talk in psychological counseling）.docVIP

黄国胜老师如何克服心理咨询中的虚谈（Teacher Huang Guosheng how to overcome the empty talk in psychological counseling） Teacher Huang Guosheng: how to overcome the empty talk in psychological counseling? As the saying goes, easier said than done.. In the process of psychological counseling, often encountered such a situation: the consultation process is very smooth, but the Advisory effect is always bad. We call this empty talk. It should be noted that the Advisory effect mentioned here refers to the actual improvement of the situation of the person seeking help rather than the subjective evaluation of the improvement by the help seeking person. Sometimes, in fact counseling is effective, but the caller was not satisfied, there are two reasons: (1) patient expectations, counseling effect is not up to the requirements to be considered invalid; (2) improve the speed is relatively slow, difficult to get subjective feeling. Therefore, before making psychological consultation, we must consult with the help seeking person to determine the target of consultation. In the process of consultation, we should apply the scale regularly to evaluate and compare it before and after, so as to observe the effect and leave the evidence at the same time. First, the reasons for empty talk Generally speaking, virtual talk is a kind of impedance, but it is more obscure and more dangerous than ordinary impedance. If the caller is late for a reason, the conversation is not active, he forgets something important or does not pay attention to the psychological consultation, the consultant can usually think of the resistance of the help seeking person. After analyzing the impedance, finding the cause and overcoming it, the consultation will make progress. For virtual talk, consultants are usually difficult to detect in time, often only after a period of time. If not dealt with promptly, the help seeking person will lose confidence, or even interrupt the consultation. Qian Mingyi divided the causes of resistance i