精神生活的六个忠告~!（Six advice for spiritual life ~!）.doc

精神生活的六个忠告~!（Six advice for spiritual life ~!） Six advice for spiritual life ~! One, the world, others, and ourselves, there is always something we do not know. The difficulty of understanding others can not be said without saying that even our own affairs are many which we ourselves are not easy to know. People tend to believe that their love you want to know why, such feelings and actions, but psychoanalysis insisted that we think, feel, do, have a lot of time is what we dont know, dont understand, they are affected by the command and control of the subconscious. For example, (which had the teacher said in a lecture case), parents urge their children to study hard, to the child is not good not to mind taking the trouble to give lectures will not work and so on, so that children learn more rebellious, not good, also produced such as forcing neurotic symptoms. On the face of it, parents want their children to be good, but their real thinking is to fear that their children will not learn well in the future, and that they will not be able to get into a good university. They have no face, and can not satisfy their vanity. It is parents who are unwilling to accept the anxiety of failure, and urge their children to learn, and pass the anxiety on to their children. This is a typical example of love while it is harmful.. To know your heart is very difficult, because in the civilization and society, we must follow certain rules, when the mind and the rules of conflict, we used the approach is to be suppressed, so that the later even do not recognize or acknowledge. A person who has seen the opposite sex blushes and is uncomfortable. He does not know that he has a feeling of affection for the opposite sex within himself. A woman always suspected her husband is out, although after observation, there is no evidence to test, but cannot get rid of the idea, is actually her own outside of a husbands men have a strong love heart to accept and resist conflict between two kinds of em